Saturday, March 21, 2009

"Kid's Say the Darndest Things"



“Mommy, you are my one, true love!” What a thrilling statement to hear from your child! When my son said that to me, the birds chirping was sweeter, the sky was bluer, and the flowers smelled more beautiful ~ well maybe not but that’s sure what it seemed like!

Then, the next day, one of our children asked us a question about bathroom type things that would have been totally embarrassing if asked out in public!

We had to fight against our initial reaction to laugh at such a question and had to remember children are a “blank slate” and are asking questions because they want to learn something. One of our job's as parents is to make our home a comfortable place where our children can ask anything, tell us anything, and vent in a safe environment. It’s also to be able to give them an answer that is appropriate to their age.

As a mother, I want to teach my children to be open and honest about their life and I want to teach them how to live, love, and laugh in the security and knowledge that they have a Savior and parents who love them always – no matter what the statement or question may be!

Proverbs 22:6
Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.

Our Family

Today, we decided to create a journal of our families Journeys. God has been so good to us. We call our blog 5-High-5 because in our family of 5, a High-5 is the greatest of all compliments and rewards! Our story starts when Mark and I got married in 2000. Then in 2002, we got the good news that we had a son, Jacob! We flew to Hawaii, where Jacob was born, and he was put in our arms on Thanksgiving day! We were thrilled and felt such love for this precious little boy. In 2003, we received a phone call that would change our lives forever - there was a little boy in Hawaii and he was ours if we wanted him! We said yes! Within a few days we met our precious Joshua - again, love filled our hearts to over flowing!!! In 2006 we learned of a little girl who had been born in Guatemala. We knew she was our daughter. In June 2007, we flew to Guatemala and were able to bring her home - such love and excitement was overwhelming! Each story of our journey to become a family of 5 has been a testimony of God's absolute love, mercy and grace. One day, I hope to share each of our children's stories with you. Thank you for joining us on our great adventure!